Obituary: Allen Messner

Allen Messner

Lakeway, Texas

On June 19, 2024, Allen Messner, 91, passed away peacefully while surrounded by family in Lakeway, Texas. His life was a testament to his legacy of hard work, love and unwavering dedication to his family and friends.

Allen's visitation was held on Tuesday, June 25, 2024 from 1-5 p.m. at Evans Funeral Home, New Rockford. A visitation was also held on Wednesday, June 26, 2024 from 1-2 p.m., followed by a funeral service at 2 p.m., all at Evans Funeral Home, New Rockford. His burial was as the Riverside Cemetery, Sheyenne, N.D. Pastor Jeff Halvorson officiated. Recorded music was "In The Garden," "How Great Thou Art" and "On Eagle's Wings." Casket bearers were Ryan Hoffner, Jason Hovdenes, Jesse Lesmeister, Tyler Messner, Jacob Messner, Nathan Messner and Chase Messner. Honorary bearers were all of Allen's family and close friends.

Allen Milfred Messner was born on Aug. 12, 1932, to George and Idelia Messner in Hamar, N.D. He was preceded in death by his parents; his sisters, Isabelle and Florence; and brother, Lyle. He is survived by his brother, Harvey.

In 1954, he married his beloved Ellen (predeceased), and together they shared a lifetime of joys and challenges, growing together over the years. Allen was a devoted father, raising six children – Colleen (husband Richard), Charleen (predeceased, husband Wayne), Connie (husband Robert), Steve (wife Barbara), Arleen (husband Brian), and Dallas (life partner Brandi). He planted seeds of wisdom in his children as he planted seeds in his fields, nurturing their growth and celebrating every milestone.

His legacy continues through his 19 grandchildren – Andrea, Ryan, Tina, Jesse, Jason, Angela, Tyler, Jacob, Nathan, Megan, (Lynette, predeceased), Lauren, Bridget, Katherine, Jeff, Shelby, Nicole, Bethanie and Chase; as well as 21 great-grandchildren – Makenna, Ethan, Addison, Royce, Jocelyn, Hunter, Parker, Chaz, Jarrett, Ean, Chloe, Carrie, Casen, Easton, Oliver, Andrew, Frankie, Lars, Preston, Isaiah and Freya. He always enjoyed seeing them anytime they visited the farm and found fulfillment in his role as a grandfather and great-grandfather.

Allen honorably served his country during the Korean War from Sept. 9, 1953 to Aug. 17, 1955. Leaving his new wife and child was incredibly difficult for him, but during this time, he and Ellen exchanged numerous letters and eagerly anticipated his return. His sacrifice and commitment shaped his character, instilling in him a deep appreciation for freedom and resilience. He was an active member in the VFW – Sheyenne, N.D., Sheyenne Wildlife Club and Township Supervisor, Eagles, Farm Bureau and Steam Threshers.

The land was his canvas, and he painted it with sweat and determination. Running a thriving farm and ranch, he raised cattle and cultivated crops. His hands bore the calluses of labor, and his heart swelled with pride as he transformed bare dirt to productive land to support his family. Beyond the farm, he reveled in history and craftsmanship. Collecting and restoring antique farm equipment became his passion, and so his artistry took another form. Each rusted plow or weathered tool held a story, and he would add a colorful new chapter.

But his greatest joy came from spending time with friends and family. He loved to take them hunting with him when the season was right, if they could brave the cold. He also loved spending time with them outside in the yard, catching up over a cup of coffee that Ellen would always have ready to go. When he made the move to Texas, he brought the Kings in the Corner card game with him, teaching his caregivers – Darel, Kerry, Barbara and Kimberly, how to play (and even occasionally letting them win a hand). His love of Mollie B's polka tunes was infectious, and he had everyone humming along all day long. One of the highlights of moving to Texas was meeting and visiting with Mollie B in person and hearing her sing "Happy Birthday" to him at a concert for his 89th birthday. We thank his caregivers for their kindness and companionship over the years. They became a second family to him, especially the Boss Man.

And then there were his loyal companions, the canine Kids, Butch and Tootsie. These faithful dogs followed him wherever he went, as steadfast as the seasons and as quietly loving as their Pa.

Allen's legacy lives on in the fertile soil, the laughter of his great-grandchildren, and the memories we all carry with us. As we bid farewell to him, let us remember him not only for how he lived out his principles of resilience and dedication to others, but for steadfast love he shared with all of us.

Rest in peace, dear farmer, father and friend. Your harvest is complete, and your spirit will forever bloom in the golden fields of our memories.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to American Heart Association or Riverside Cemetery in honor of Allen Milfred Messner.

Arrangements by Evans Funeral Home of New Rockford and Carrington, N.D.